Thursday, 10 March 2016

Well placing V into the friend zone help my mental state and recovery?

I started the day with a message from V, Sitting on my phone I cant really remember how it started but it was a nice little chat, She asked me a fav (nothing big) and we talked.

She told me that She is really thinking about moving there and applying for a 2 year visa - While I am really happy for her put of my heart sank as it really is sinking in that this really is 100% over with no chance of anything coming again between us. Hope springs eternal but this hope is almost completely dead now.

I had a talk with a work friend and she said that it could be a good idea to mentally place her into a friend zone... like of right now and it helped left my mood - like right there and then.

So I asked the cards - Well placing V into the friend zone help my mental state and recovery?





Two of Swords - Indecision, choices, truce, stalemate, blocked emotion

Two of Cups (Reversed) Break-up, imbalance in a relationship, lack of harmony

Knight of Pentacles - Efficiency, routine, conservatism, methodical

With this Spread I am reading it as this could be the best option, it adds a truce between my want and my feelings, its been a really hard road for me as I really did care for her and Its been like a drug as when we talk and see each other all the feels come back but when we have space it disapates and I make steps to better myself. This is a brake up and very imbalanced as I think I have alot more feelings towards her than she does towards me. And the solostion or outcome points towards this being a good thing. Having the Efficiency of just putting it down to friendship and nothing more will help my head and my heart grow stronger and not put myself through more pain

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